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	<title>How to Approach Women &#124; How to Get a Date &#124; How to Attract Women by Jack Reed</title>
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		<title>Dating Advice For Guys &#8211; Traps For Internet Daters</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 16:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Online dating is more than just a fad, it is a reality. Online dating has rapidly evolved into a well-accepted medium wherein individuals can converge to discover romantic opportunities with one or an other.
Below are some of the pros and cons of online dating:

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<p>Online dating is more than just a fad, it is a reality. <a href="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/category/online-dating/">Online dating</a> has rapidly evolved into a well-accepted medium wherein individuals can converge to discover romantic opportunities with one or an other.</p>
<p>Below are some of the pros and cons of online dating:</p>
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<p>As with anything in life there are pros and cons to all this online dating, compared to real world or traditional dating, so check out some of them below.</p>
<p><strong>Pros and Cons Of Online Dating:</strong><br />
<strong>Pros:</strong></p>
<p><strong>1.</strong> <strong>It&#8217;s convenient.</strong> You don&#8217;t have to dress up to the nines to have the benefit of somebody&#8217;s friendship. You can just hop online browse profiles and send messages any time you like.</p>
<p><strong>2.</strong> <strong>It&#8217;s non-compelling.</strong> Just because you chat with some one in an online dating place does not mean you&#8217;re committed to them already. Online dating is a trial-and-error method of choosing the right individual you can share your world with.</p>
<p><strong>3. You can choose the best much quicker.</strong> Not similar to dating in the real world where the person you&#8217;re dating would most likely anticipate inimitability, online dating needs no such thing. You can speak with as many individuals as you wish until you choose Ms. Right.</p>
<p><strong>4. People can convey themselves better</strong>, at any rate in the beginning, because of the anonymity provided by theinternet.</p>
<p><strong>5. People do find true love via online dating. </strong>Believe it or not, people do actually find &#8220;the one&#8221; when it comes to online dating and there have been many success stories. You just have to think about it as being an electronic version of real life dating with easier methods to break the ice with strangers. This can be a real help, especially when it comes to <a href="http://www.howtoapproachher.com">how to approach women</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Cons:</strong></p>
<p><strong>1. Many of online dating websites charge membership fees.</strong> There are no cost online dating facilities, surely, but they are riddled with more dilemmas than their paid rivals. Think of it as spending money on your membership instead of always going out on unsuccessful dates. Plus, if you use a free service, they are very unlikely to have the great tools the paid sites have for you.</p>
<p><strong>2. There are no certain defense against nuisance and dishonesty</strong>, the happening of which is strengthened given the veil of mystery widespread on the net. You have to keep your wits about you when it comes to online dating. Checking out my previous post on <a href="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/online-dating/7-things-you-should-not-do-when-dating-online/">7 Things You Should Not Do When Dating Online</a>.</p>
<p><strong>3. You will be restricted to an individual&#8217;s written words in determining her personality.</strong> You will not be able to see the person, at any rate, not to start with. You will not be able to study her facial articulation, her way of talking, and her mannerisms. This is not to be undersestimated. You don&#8217;t wanna end up in a public situation to find they have no social skills in the real world!</p>
<p><strong>4. You will never be sure about the physical traits of the person.</strong> Let&#8217;s admit it, a lot of individuals still put a premium on physical looks. How can we be sure that the person at the other end of the internet cable is attractive enough for us? Pictures? Pictures can lie in this present day of lighting, angles, and editing. We will never be sure untill we see them in person. Thankfully a lot of people have webcams now &#8211; so don&#8217;t be afraid to get one yourself and talk on instant messenger with web cams. It at least gives you a better view than pictures!</p>
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		<title>Ten Tips for a Successful Date</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 22:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed </dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just for the sake of argument, let&#8217;s define a successful date by one that has left you smiling and anticipating a second one. In the general scheme of things, a first date is the job interview, the second date is the training period and the third date? Well that means that you have got the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-225" style="border: black 1px solid;" title="couple-on-a-date" src="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/couple-on-a-date-150x150.jpg" alt="couple-on-a-date" width="150" height="150" />Just for the sake of argument, let&#8217;s define a successful date by one that has left you smiling and anticipating a second one. In the general scheme of things, a first date is the job interview, the second date is the training period and the third date? Well that means that you have got the job!</p>
<p>So, how do you make sure that you get that second date?</p>
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<p><strong>1.</strong> <strong>Perfect planning of the first date.</strong> There is nothing worse than going out on a <a href="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/dating/the-secrets-to-first-date-conversations/">first date</a> with someone that did not put any effort at all into the evening. Know that you are taking out a vegetarian? Then do not pull up in front of the local steakhouse and expect her to be a happy customer. Find out a few things about your date and then show that you care by honoring them.</p>
<p><strong>2.</strong> <strong>Pay attention to your personal hygiene.</strong> Nothing says &#8220;I simply do not care&#8221; more loudly than bad breath or body odor. If you like someone well enough to ask them out on a date, then you should like they well enough to at least shower and brush your teeth before you show up. On a related note, if you make flowers wilt and your eyes water on the drive over, then you have gone overboard with the aftershave.</p>
<p><strong>3.</strong> <strong>Dress for success.</strong> If you know that you are heading to dinner and a film, then dress accordingly. Don&#8217;t show up to a nice place in a tee shirt and tatty jeans and expect to be thought of highly. If your date shows up in a nice dress and heels, you will know right away that you might be in some trouble.</p>
<p><strong>4.</strong> <strong>Now this one wont always work.</strong> It&#8217;s very much dependent on how arrangements have gone and how well you know her. Once option is to take something on the first date. A tasteful bouquet is always a nice touch, but some people think it is hopelessly old fashioned. There is a reason some things endure though; they (can) work! A small box of chocolate is a good choice as well, and if it’s the good stuff, you might be forgiven any social blunder.</p>
<p><strong>5.</strong> <strong>Mind your manners.</strong> No one expects you to be a social expert, but basic courtesy is always in your best interest. Hold doors open, don’t talk with your mouth full. Don&#8217;t hip check your date out on the way into the movies. And do not, I repeat, do not belch just before leaning in for a kiss!</p>
<p><strong>6.</strong> <strong>Pay attention.</strong> If your date is talking about something boring, try not to let your mind wander too far away. As soon as a man looks up with that deer in the headlights look, they know that you have not been listening. Remember, women pick up on the smallest detail!</p>
<p><strong>7.</strong> <strong>Make eye contact.</strong> This is not the same as paying attention, but the two do go hand in hand. I went out with a man one time that did not look up from his plate a single time during the entire meal. He even spoke to our waitress with his head bent over. I could only describe the top of the man’s head. Not a successful date.</p>
<p><strong>8.</strong> <strong>Be present in the moment.</strong> Along with paying attention and making eye contact, you need to connect with your date. Ask and answer questions, let her know a little bit about yourself. Show her that you actually like being there with her.</p>
<p><strong>9.</strong> <strong>Dont worry about silences.</strong> It is a sign of trust that two people can sit together silently and not feel awkward. Sometimes on the best dates, words are not even necessary.</p>
<p><strong>10.</strong> <strong>Read the signs for that final moment.</strong> You probably thought about it all day long: should you try for the kiss or not? Has she reached out to touch you during conversation? Did she grab a mint or gum right after the meal? Is she staring at your mouth? Then kiss her, you clown! Lean in, gently kiss her and let things develop from there. And after you pull back, pray that you have enough sense in your head to actually ask for a second date before you run off into the night.</p>
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		<title>How to Get Over an Ex &#8211; And Become a Better Person</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 11:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed </dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting over an ex is usually not an easy thing to do. The problem lies in going over the breakup again and again in your mind. Love is  often not a rational thing, it is emotional. Therefore it must be dealt with from the heart. Learn some simple steps in getting over an ex [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-216" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="break-up" src="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/break-up-150x150.jpg" alt="break-up" width="150" height="150" />Getting over an ex is usually not an easy thing to do. The problem lies in going over the breakup again and again in your mind. Love is  often not a rational thing, it is emotional. Therefore it must be dealt with from the heart. Learn some simple steps in getting over an ex  below.</p>
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<p><strong>1.</strong> Don&#8217;t take things so personally. Anything that your ex had to say about you or your  romantic relationship says more about who they are and how they saw things. It has nothing to do with you or who you are. A lot of times the ex my blame you for the things that went wrong, realise that this is their perception of things not yours.</p>
<p>This works both ways. If your ex behaved or is behaving badly, it doesn&#8217;t give you an excuse to behave in the wrong way. Continue being you. If you need to, model your behavior like someone you admire for their outstanding qualities. Don&#8217;t give in to the hurt and anger. Getting over an ex  is the ultimate goal.</p>
<p><strong>2.</strong> Move on mentally.  Your body will follow. This might not be as easy as it sounds and it isn&#8217;t. What I mean is, try and distance yourself from them. Start doing things by yourself or with friends and family. Gradually you will feel less and less obsessive in your thoughts towards the broken relationship.</p>
<p>It is important to remember what your life is all about and what it was like without them. The saying &#8220;Time heals all wounds&#8221; is true. In time, you can even be friends again or even reconcile. This is not to be attempted, however, until you have healed emotionally. A  hurtful rebound in getting over an ex is not what you are trying to accomplish.</p>
<p><strong>3.</strong> Remember to work  inwards.  When you are feeling down, one of the most productive things you can do is work on self improvement. Start a healthy diet, or exercise program, to feel good about your health. You might consider attending a local community college where you can meet new people and gain a positive outlook toward the future. Travel and do things that make you feel good about yourself. While surviving the process of slowly  getting over your ex, being proactive is a very effective way to speed up the healing process.</p>
<p><strong>4.</strong> Forgive your ex  as soon as possible.  It is impossible to move on without doing this. You don&#8217;t have to forget what happened but no matter what transpired you must forgive them. If you continue to obsess about them or the breakup, you are doing nothing but wasting your time and energy. You will need both to heal and move on properly  and without too much distress.</p>
<p>In getting over an ex  for good, you have to be comfortable with being uncomfortable for a little while. It really does involve a conceous effort to take one step at a time in order to get over what happened.</p>
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		<title>Discover and Appreciate The Law of Attraction</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 13:15:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gregory Reading</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If Law of Attraction works, you will surely be grateful for all that you receive as a result of practising it. Life will be easier and more abundant. However, you actually need to start out with a feeling of gratitude before you can expect good things to come.
This is what the Law of Attraction is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="mceTemp"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-212" style="border: black 1px solid;" title="law-of-attraction" src="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/law-of-attraction-150x150.jpg" alt="law-of-attraction" width="150" height="150" />If Law of Attraction works, you will surely be grateful for all that you receive as a result of practising it. Life will be easier and more abundant. However, you actually need to start out with a feeling of gratitude before you can expect good things to come.</div>
<p>This is what the <a href="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/category/law-of-attraction/">Law of Attraction</a> is about. When you believe fantastic things are already happening for you, you will be grateful. It is important to believe, furthermore, being grateful for something you believe is happening sends out positive vibrations into the universe. This brings the good things to you by way of the Law of Attraction.</p>
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<p>Without even thinking of the future, you can use Law of Attraction to draw the positive things to you. If you are thankful for the things in your life, you will be focused in on the good energy inherent in your grateful mind.</p>
<p>Think of the way things snowball, both the good and the bad. You might wake up in a bad mood because you resent a noisy neighbour for keeping you up late. If you let that bad mood win out, more negative things will continue to happen to you all day long. When you consider the Law of Attraction, you will see why this happens.</p>
<p>If, however, you brush off the bad feelings and replace them with gratitude you will be surprised at how much better your day will go. You may be thankful that you woke up beside your loving spouse, or you might be grateful that you have a job to go to. Whatever it is, the Law of Attraction will make it work for you.</p>
<p>So, it works on a system of gratitude and reward. You need a way to remind yourself to always be grateful for the good things in your life. Some people set aside a certain time each day to list the things they&#8217;re thankful for. They might compile them in a journal and look over them all from time to time.</p>
<p>The Law of Attraction is built on good habits. You can carry some sort of talisman. It can be anything from a rock to a coin. It can be anything you will handle daily. Some people put these items in their pockets. Some put them on a string around their necks. The idea is that every time you touch it, you feel gratitude. If at all possible, you express that gratitude to others. Your mind will become geared towards thinking in terms of what you are thankful for. This will allow the Master Law of Attraction to do its work.</p>
<p>Your mind controls who and what you are. It can also change what you have. This may be material possessions, relationships, or health. If you are in a mindset of gratitude, you are in a position to make this Law bring to you all that you desire.</p>
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		<title>Do You Need First Date Advice?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 08:27:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did you ask a girl you like out on a date?  Did she say yes?  Right about now, you may be excited.  As your date approaches, your excitement may turn to nervousness.  What should I wear? How should I act?  Where should we go?  Continue reading on for a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_204" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 130px"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-204" title="first_date" src="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/first_date1-150x150.jpg" alt="Don't - whatever you do, make it obvious!" width="120" height="120" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Don&#39;t - whatever you do, make it obvious!</p></div>
<p>Did you ask a girl you like out on a date?  Did she say yes?  Right about now, you may be excited.  As your date approaches, your excitement may turn to nervousness.  What should I wear? How should I act?  Where should we go?  Continue reading on for a few helpful tips.</p>
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<p><strong>Planning the Date</strong></p>
<p>When you asked the girl on a date, what did you say?  If you asked her to the movies, that is where you should go.  Do not change a date location without first speaking to her.  This is one of the fastest ways to ruin a first date.  If you want to sneak in dinner or a drinks, that is okay, but always live up to your words.  If you do make changes, discuss them in advance.</p>
<p>If you asked the girl if she would like to go out with you, but didn’t provide her with a destination, start thinking about it now.  Don’t decide at the last minute, as this may result in disaster.  The best first dates are those where you can have fun and get to know the girl.  Opt for movie and a dinner, an outdoor concert, a picnic, bowling, and so forth.  If you are still at a loss for ideas, ask her for suggestions.</p>
<p>There are two ways to arrive at a date, together or separate.  When possible, you want to drive your date.  She may not accept your offer, but at least make it.</p>
<p><strong>Preparing for Your Date</strong></p>
<p>For most men, preparation begins a few hours before date time.  Yes, this is true, but think about costs.  If you are on a budget, you need to financially prepare for your date ahead of time.  You can prevent this from becoming a problem by opting for an affordable destination.  For example, don’t choose a restaurant where you can’t afford half the food on the menu.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>Rarely will a first date go 100% as planned</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<p>Most guys prepare for a date by showering.  This is a small, but important step.  Show up clean.  If you don’t think you will have enough time, try to leave work early, skip your afternoon at the gym, and so forth.  Do not assume that loading cologne on will hide your smell.  It may, but your date may also have a bad reaction to it.</p>
<p><strong>The Date</strong></p>
<p>You want to make a good first impression with your date.  The easiest way to do this is to arrive early.  Never be late for date.  If you will be late, call immediately.  Do not assume that all women are alike and running late.  Some women run on schedule.  Even still, you want to be on time even if you have to wait a few minutes for her.</p>
<p>The goal of a first date is to learn more about the one you are with.  For that reason, keep on talking.  Pauses in a conversation are common, but try to prevent them.  Ask your date questions and she should do the same.  If not, talk a little bit about yourself.</p>
<p>The most important thing to remember about first dates is that they aren’t supposed to be perfect.  Rarely will a first date go 100% as planned.  There will always be awkward moments.  There will always be pauses in the conversation and one of you is likely to say something slightly embarrassing.  If your first date doesn’t go as planned, don’t panic.  Hopefully, you will have a second chance to make a good impression.</p>
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		<title>How to Make a Dating Profile that Will Fill Your Inbox</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 15:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wondering about trying online dating but confused about where to start?  Or, have you been using online dating but not getting the responses or results you want?
It all starts with your user name, headline and profile.  But it&#8217;s not so frightening or difficult,  just take a deep breath, clear your mind of [...]]]></description>
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<p>Wondering about trying online dating but confused about where to start?  Or, have you been using online dating but not getting the responses or results you want?</p>
<p>It all starts with your user name, headline and profile.  But it&#8217;s not so frightening or difficult,  just take a deep breath, clear your mind of today&#8217;s worries and think positive!  Here&#8217;s a useful insight about writing your great dating profile.</p>
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<p>First, remember, you are trying to attract someone to read your profile and contact you.  What are some of your positive attributes, or what are some of your favourite past-times or hobbies?</p>
<p>For example, let&#8217;s say you love American football.  So maybe your user name could be 1,2,3,Hike!  Your headline: “I&#8217;ll be your Quarterback, “ or, “You Can be my Quarterback”,  or even,  “The game is good, but half-time can be better!”  Are you starting to get the idea?</p>
<p>As you write your profile think like the person who is going to read it.  After all, you are, in a sense, speaking to them.  Instead of: &#8220;I like to watch football and my favourite team is XXX&#8221;,  you could write: &#8220;I&#8217;d like to spend a Sunday afternoon cheering on the team with you!&#8221;  Now, you&#8217;re connecting with the reader and the reader starts visualizing doing the things you are interested in with you!</p>
<p>Also it makes it far more easier for someone to contact you because you have, basically, already started a conversation with them.  With the above example, someone could contact you and say, &#8220;Hey, I loved your profile.  I like Sunday football, too.  What&#8217;s your favourite team?  Mine&#8217;s XXX, but they&#8217;ve been lousy lately, so I may switch.  Do you ever go to sports bars to watch?&#8221;</p>
<p>Are your initial emails like now?</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s have a quick look &#8230;</p>
<p>Quote:</p>
<p>Hi (person’s screen name),  I saw your profile online, which I found to be quite interesting. I saw in it that you are hard working with goals in mind. I was wondering what some of your goals are, and if you don&#8217;t mind sharing them with me? (my name)  Thanks a lot!</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;I saw your profile online&#8221;</em></strong> &#8211; Well yeah, obviously! Leave this out, if you&#8217;re sending a short email, get to the point. Otherwise you have all fluff and no content.</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;which I found to be quite interesting&#8221;</em></strong> &#8211; &#8216;quite interesting&#8217;&#8230; that&#8217;s about as unenthusiastic as you could possibly sound whilst still technically delivering a compliment. And don&#8217;t compliment the profile, compliment <strong>HER</strong>.</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;I saw in it that you are hard working with goals in mind. I was wondering what some of your goals are, and if you don&#8217;t mind sharing them with me?&#8221;</em></strong> &#8211; This is not exactly a fascinating subject to open with. If you&#8217;re going to do it though, there is no need to be so over-the-top polite, as if you need permission to ask a question.</p>
<p>You could probably change that to something like:</p>
<p>Quote:</p>
<p>Hi (person’s screen name),  You seem like a very driven, passionate person. I like that. I was wondering what some of your ambitions &amp; goals are, and if you think pineapple makes a good pizza topping?  (my name)  Thanks a lot! My reasons:</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;You seem like a very driven, passionate person. I like that.&#8221;</em></strong> &#8211; much more positive and definite. You&#8217;re talking to her now, not her profile.</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;I was wondering what some of your ambitions &amp; goals are,&#8221;</em></strong> &#8211; less beating about the bush than before</p>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;and if you think pineapple makes a good pizza topping?&#8221;</strong></em> &#8211; I like to throw in something random and trivial if I send a &#8217;serious&#8217; email talking about the &#8216;bigger things&#8217; like goals and ambitions.</p>
<p>It keeps things light and not too serious. It sends the message that she doesn&#8217;t need to take the reply too seriously, but can do if she wants. But that&#8217;s just me, you might want to ignore that if it&#8217;s not &#8216;you&#8217;.</p>
<p>See how much easier and successful it is when you target your write up to the viewer?</p>
<p>Now get writing!</p>
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		<title>Look At Evolution To Find A Mate</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 15:03:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is the best dating advice for men? What should men know if they want a relationship to last the test of time?
Probably the single biggest piece of relationship advice for men is to stop listening to what women say they want and start observing what women actually display that they want.
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<p>What is the best <a href="http://www.howtoapproachher.com" target="_blank">dating advice for men</a>? What should men know if they want a relationship to last the test of time?</p>
<p>Probably the single biggest piece of relationship advice for men is to stop listening to what women say they want and start observing what women actually display that they want.</p>
<p>How do they display what they want? It is as simple as observing what kind of men they choose.</p>
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<p>Women say “I want a man who listens to me.” They choose the man who dominates the conversation. Women say, “I want a guy with a good sense of humor.” They date the guy who has money.</p>
<p>Why do ladies say they want one thing but actually go out with a guy who is just the opposite? The answer to that question lies in the subconscious motivators for getting together. And, therein lies my dating advice for men.</p>
<p>The historical, biological reason for men and women to get together is to propagate the species. In other words, just because getting pregnant may be the last thing on her conscious mind, when she evaluates a man at the subconscious level, she’s still looking for a good father for her children.</p>
<p>Is the good dad someone who listens to her? No, it is someone who will provide for her children. And, the person who can provide for her children is someone who has the confidence to bring home the moolah.</p>
<p>Women need men who can be good providers. While a man can produce thousands of sperm on repeated occasions throughout their adult lives, even into their 90’s, women have about 400 chances of producing a baby. As a result, they are looking for a man who can provide longevity and stability for their babies.</p>
<p>A man who tells a women he is a lawyer and not a paralegal will have a better chance of landing her. That is because she perceives that a lawyer is a better provider for her future children.</p>
<p>But having a good income is not enough. A woman needs to perceive that a man is generous with his resources and will provide for her children. That is why women place such a high value on gifts such as jewelry.</p>
<p>It may also be why the engagement ring must be such a large purchase. When you ask a woman to marry you, you give her a ring, not just because it is traditional and romantic, but because it is a tangible display that you can provide for her and her children.</p>
<p>Further, even though modern humans make money more from their brains than their brawn, women are still programmed to think of strength equaling the ability to provide. That’s why, even when there is evidence to the contrary in the form of a tax return, the woman is hardwired to choose the lineman over the computer geek.</p>
<p>So, the biggest piece of relationship advice for men is to figure out what women need from an evolutionary point of view and give it to her.</p>
<p>Think about it for a moment&#8230;</p>
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		<title>7 Things You Should Not Do When Dating Online</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 16:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The process of dating can be a trying one and many people feel at one time or another in their life that it is no longer worth the struggle. With the recent introduction of online dating in our society, now only a few years old, many of the hardships that were previously apart of this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_178" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-178 " style="border: black 1px solid;" title="internet" src="http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/internet-150x150.jpg" alt="Online Dating is a Great Way to Get Started" width="150" height="150" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Online Dating is a Great Way to Get Started</p></div>
<p>The process of dating can be a trying one and many people feel at one time or another in their life that it is no longer worth the struggle. With the recent introduction of online dating in our society, now only a few years old, many of the hardships that were previously apart of this process can be swiftly eliminated forever.</p>
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<p>Online dating offers the freedom of dismissing many potential dates that would result in a poor or frustrating relationship eventually without spending months of precious time rooting out the flaws. Allowing systems that can match your personality traits, hopes and desires with others who share your views is an amazing place to start when dating can really speed up the process.</p>
<p>Before you begin online dating, or even for those who feel they know it very well, it can be helpful to keep a few precautions in mind so that your experience is the best that it can be.</p>
<p><strong>1 Listing Flaws</strong></p>
<p>Though it may be tempting to list many of your flaws, especially for those who are lacking in confidence, this is a poor way to begin a relationship. Hiding aspects of your personality is not necessary to the process; however, beginning on such a negative note can turn many people away.</p>
<p>While it may become necessary to eventually reveal these less attractive aspects of your life to a person of interest, there is no reason to lead off with weaknesses rather than strengths; focusing on the positive aspects of your personality might require some deep thought and a bit more ego than you would normally posses, but it is no way vain to list those parts of your life which you are most proud of.</p>
<p><strong>2 Distorted Snapshots</strong></p>
<p>Using an old photo of yourself, or one that greatly distorts how you look on a day to day basis can be fun if you have no intention of taking the process seriously, but can lead to disaster if you are hoping to find a real relationship. While taking a good picture of yourself is recommended, just as you would dress up a little if you were going out, dramatic differences can be very misleading; while some would argue that looks are not important, most would agree deception is, don&#8217;t lead off your new relationship with a lie however small and insecure.</p>
<p>The possibility of finding love places a great deal of pressure on many people, but it is important to remember that when you find that person they should be looking at the real you.</p>
<p><strong>3 Unrealistic Expectations</strong></p>
<p>While the world of online dating will offer you a much wider selection of people to choose from, do not enter into the process with unrealistic standards. Remember that on the other end of those profiles you are browsing through are real people who come equipped with many wonderful traits, but also a few flaws.</p>
<p>Expecting to find love on your first day may be hoping for too much, remember to pace yourself and keep an open mind. Knowing what personality traits or parts of a person&#8217;s life are most important to you is an excellent way to begin your experience, just be sure not to expect perfection as having this in mind will almost certainly cause you to miss out on the chance of getting to know some wonderful people.</p>
<p>If you do come across a person who seems to be utterly flawless, be cautious, certain safety measures are in place on many dating sites, but certain people still feel the need to lie. Don&#8217;t set yourself up for disappointment; be fair and honest about what you want in your match.</p>
<p><strong>4 Too Far, Too Fast</strong></p>
<p>It can be easy to get swept up In the romance when you do meet an interesting person and to feel that you have known them for much longer than you truly have; these feelings can sometimes lead to a sense of trust that has not yet been earned.</p>
<p>While it is a wonderful quality to be open and honest about your life do be careful not to reveal information that you would not feel comfortable giving to a stranger, remember that it can take time to get to know a person and that often small steps forward are necessary before trusting a person who you met not long ago.</p>
<p><strong>5 Embellishment for Ego</strong></p>
<p>It can be very tempting to exaggerate or even flat out lie about your life so that you seem attractive to others; many people suffer from insecurity and feel the need to deceive those they meet under the assumption that those people would not like who they truly are.</p>
<p>While taking this approach to online dating may seem interesting at first, if you intend to pursue any relationships this is a rather magnificent approach to disaster. Though it might be difficult you must trust that however scared you feel there are others out there who share your insecurity and will in all probability adore the person you are; don&#8217;t be afraid to give yourself a little pep-talk before creating a profile or chatting with potential dates and keep in mind, that lying to those you meet online is a poor and childish way to treat others.</p>
<p><strong>6 Guilt of Dismissal</strong></p>
<p>Once you have set up your profile and begin the process of meeting others you will in all probability come across people who for many reasons you have little or no interest in; some people feel the need to give these ill matched candidates a chance despite their gut feelings simply because they do not want to reject others; while this instinct is a kind and considerate one, (the desire not to hurt other people is one you should be proud of,) it’s often a great waste of time and will only lead to your having to reject the person later on when both of you have invested more time and feeling into the relationship.</p>
<p>Many people, though hurt, find it comforting to receive a simple and kindly worded reply from those who are not interested in them; this not only helps to lessen the feeling of rejection, but brings the matter to conclusion rather than being left with uncertainty.</p>
<p><strong>7 The Right Site</strong></p>
<p>Finding the right online dating site can be a little tricky and often takes a bit of research before you can join the community. Creating a list of what qualities you expect from a site and what you are willing to put into the process can be a wonderful way to eliminate those which would be a poor fit.</p>
<p>Joining a site simply because it is free, or costs little, is not usually a good way to begin if you hope to find others who would best suit you; often these sites have smaller communities or people who are less enthusiastic about taking the process seriously. Joining the first site you come across simply because it is popular might also be a mistake; the most popular does not necessarily mean the best fit for what you want.</p>
<p>Take the time to find out about the community you’re about to join before jumping in by checking online dating reviews and posts so that your experience has the best chance of being a great one.</p>
<p>Knowing what not to do when dating online is just as important as knowing what works well; doing a little research on the subject shows that your interest is most likely not superficial and that your dedication to making online dating work for you gives you a greater chance of success. Remember to proceed with a little caution and a positive attitude when searching for that special someone who might only be a few clicks away.</p>
<p>Over the coming months we will be looking into the online dating subject, by giving you reviews of the best sites, as well as ways to improve your profile and success.</p>
<p>Keep tuned!</p>
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		<title>How to Get a Date &#8211; For Dummies</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 17:08:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It sometimes seems that it is more challenging than ever to find a good, high-quality date, even though we all have more &#8220;friends&#8221; and are more connected than ever in today&#8217;s hyper-wired universe.
So what&#8217;s up with that? Why, with so many friends and so many tools, are more and more of us spending so many [...]]]></description>
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<p>It sometimes seems that it is more challenging than ever to find a good, high-quality date, even though we all have more &#8220;friends&#8221; and are more connected than ever in today&#8217;s hyper-wired universe.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s up with that? Why, with so many friends and so many tools, are more and more of us spending so many lonely nights at home alone?</p>
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<p>Well, it all goes back to Dating 101, or as I like to call it, <a href="http://www.howtoapproachher.com" target="_blank">how to get a date</a>.</p>
<p>In reality, you are much, much, much, much – have I made my point yet &#8211; more likely to find a date &#8211; if you take a bit of time to practice a few old school rules.</p>
<p>Old school rule number one (Hint: there is only one old school rule) is very easy &#8211; USE YOUR FRIENDS!</p>
<p>Some experts will try to tell you that it is better to meet new people at work, at church, at the local bar or even at the supermarket.</p>
<p>However, if you&#8217;re yet to be comfortable with approaching women in this way, you&#8217;ll be much more likely to hook up with girls if you already have a social circle and use those existing friends to introduce you to some of their friends. The first added bonus to this being that you can also get a recommendation and some partner in advance, something not always possible when meeting up blind on the Internet.</p>
<p>So, at the risk of repeating what we have already learned to make it clear, it is more important to make some real friends first, and then worry about finding somebody or something more serious later on.</p>
<p>Fortunately, it is also easier than ever to find new friends these days thanks to all the great tools available on the Internet.</p>
<p>Remember, dating is and always has been a game of patience. You need to use the tools on the Internet first to make some real world friends, then use those connections to take the next step into something more serious.</p>
<p>Following the above rule is much more likely to result in a new relationship, and someday you to will look back and realize that you too have mastered the art of how to get a date for dummies.</p>
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		<title>7 Ways to Pick Up Girls Like the Devil</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 14:11:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jack Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok, we&#8217;re gonna take a little break from all that &#8220;normal&#8221; pick up advice and take a plunge into the dirty depths of just exactly how the devil would do it&#8230;
Remember &#8211; this is the devil we&#8217;re talking about. He don&#8217;t give a monkeys about &#8220;Fear of Approach&#8220;. Why would he be scared? He&#8217;s the [...]]]></description>
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<p>Ok, we&#8217;re gonna take a little break from all that &#8220;normal&#8221; <a href="http://www.howtoapproachher.com" target="_blank">pick up advice</a> and take a plunge into the dirty depths of just exactly how the devil would do it&#8230;</p>
<p><span id="more-147"></span>Remember &#8211; this is the devil we&#8217;re talking about. He don&#8217;t give a monkeys about &#8220;<strong>Fear of Approach</strong>&#8220;. Why would he be scared? He&#8217;s the Devil for crying out loud!</p>
<p>He&#8217;s not even gotta worry about the hot chicks he&#8217;s approaching turning  him down. If they so much as try, he can tell them to go to hell &#8211; and mean it.</p>
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<h3><em><strong>If you see him in your area hitting on women, I suggest you try a different post code. It&#8217;s not worth it <img src='http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  &#8211; Jack Reed</strong></em></h3>
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<p><strong>1)</strong> Group approaches are actually the easiest for the devil. He loves nothing more than a group of hot chicks that know it.</p>
<p>Picture this &#8211; There&#8217;s a group of super hot chicks, standing around loving the attention from all the wannabe guys just wishing they could approach.</p>
<p>All our guy needs to do is saddle up next to one of them and come out with any line he wishes. &#8220;Hey hot stuff, how&#8217;s about it?&#8221; (How rubbish is that?)</p>
<p>Quite clearly the Devil is lacking in the looks department.  For one he&#8217;s bright red, for two he has horns and for three, he just HAS to carry that damn fork around with him. Not to mention his tail!</p>
<p>So, the hot chick just point blank ignores him. Who cares? With a wave of his fork, she&#8217;s engulfed in flames. &#8220;Now who wants a date?&#8221; The remaining girls are clambering to get a date with him now!</p>
<p><strong>2)</strong> Lies and deception are arguably the things our guy is the greatest at. Why wouldn&#8217;t he use it to his advantage?</p>
<p>So, he uses his tried and tested method of buying souls. He picks his girl, writes up a contract and sets to work. He promises her all the material things in life, and anything that she would go for and she can&#8217;t wait to sign her soul over to him.</p>
<p>But this guy is slick. In the small print is confirmation that she will be required to go out on a date with him whenever he likes. Sucker!</p>
<p><strong>3)</strong> So, the devil sees his future girl with another man and he&#8217;s not a happy chappy. But he&#8217;s cool and relaxed, he&#8217;ll sort this out in no time.</p>
<p>Up he pops &#8211; explaining that the other guy has to go to hell for that act he committed with that sheep. Zap &#8211; off he goes into hell and our guy is left to pick up the pieces with a box of Kleenex and a &#8220;I know &#8211; it&#8217;s such a shame.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>4)</strong> The Devil knows and sees all and this is great news. The bartering power is insane.</p>
<p>How many hot chicks have dirty little secrets? No one is safe.</p>
<p>Have no fear. Our friend is at hand to make all those troubles go away. He simply offers her the chance to get out of going to hell in exchange for a date.</p>
<p>&#8220;Just sign here&#8230;&#8221; Remember point 2? Sucker!</p>
<p><strong>5)</strong> Our guy doesn&#8217;t need to rely on Kino escalation. He is the best persuader known to man. A Nudge with his fork, maybe chuck in a wink for good measure and he&#8217;s got your number. Easiest closing technique I know of!</p>
<p><strong>6)</strong> Why not take his persuasion skills further by representing future prisoners in the court of law? He hooks up with some chick who is bound to go down for murder and in exchange of a date &#8211; he can get them off, no worries.</p>
<p>Easy pickings.</p>
<p><strong>7)</strong> Using the ugly mate &#8211; is always a winner. We&#8217;ve all seen it. A hot chick  with an ugly mate.</p>
<p>This is a win win for the devil. He simply uses a similar technique from point 3 and says the ugly mate is going down unless the hot one is gonna go on a date with him.</p>
<p>Remember I said it was a win win? Well if the hot chick decides not to, he can still zap the ugly one and that&#8217;s <strong>one less ugly chick to worry about!</strong></p>
<p>Boy, that devil is one tough cookie. Let&#8217;s just be thankful he&#8217;s not into guys (I hope).</p>
<p>If you see him in your area hitting on women, I suggest you try a different post code. It&#8217;s not worth it <img src='http://www.howtoapproachher.com/membersblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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